Monday, 4 January 2016

Relationship Saga

We are nearly heading towards 2020 in few years time. To begin, with this article is written solely for the purpose to raise awareness. There is no intention to offend or malign any individual in person or a group of people. There is no statistical backup or evidence to support the claims however they are not imaginary either.

Every person in this world is looking to form that relationship with deemed someone special. It's very difficult to justify the expectations as every individual has a different barometer. In Indian context most of the relationships formed are on the basis of external appearance and status of the person. Can we progress beyond the skin deep. Unlike in the west where they actually value the person and their beliefs.The whole thing called as relationship is also coined as complicated. There was a time back in the days when the thing called love was very simple people would just write letters to each other or talk on the phone or sometimes dare to meet in person. It was an innocent feeling.

When I look around I either hear people talking about how many people exploit the relationship. Women are more open to have an extra marital affair despite being married. Men as compared to women have had such Casanova stances on many occasions. The plethora of cheating on at various levels is prevalent and now widely accepted. The man and woman both have equal stance of what to and what not to choose. The physical need is so strong that an individual can go to any extent to satisfy it. But then the whole essence of love is lost and what remains is just lust which is only for bodily enjoyment.Are we so weak that we are allowing the immorality to creep in. Every relationship is on the basis of give and take which is the bitter truth. The so called teen relationships are also fragile where the foundation is the physical needs and external appearance. Wife swapping, partner exchange etc are modernised version of cosmopolitan society. Perhaps the culture is just getting lost in haywire direction of modern civilisation. If you ask me to be non judgemental then the onus of moral policing lies on everyone else.

Why not just instill few virtues in the coming generation who would be the so called future of our nation. And in the first place it depends on wether we or the generation want to adopt bit of morality. Free will and freedom of speech liberates one in their action however the karma cycle plays its role. You are free to do what you want to do however please be ready to bear the consequences then. There won't be an ideal world but surely few ideal people to look up to. Please choose what would you like to portray !


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